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Saturday, June 16, 2012

认真的对话

最近对于一些对话,我都觉得很陌生,就算是跟结交很久的朋友。
是久了没见,还是能聊的话题都不一样了?
以往都是用那些没有认真性的方式来嘲笑加无厘头对话。
现在却成了一说错了就变得蛮严重的。

过后我就在想,就想通了一些可能性。
第一,当一个人开始工作了,要面对的是些披着羊皮的狼。
说错了话,就会被指指点点。
开些笑话,别人却当真地把全部听进去。
久而久之,在这些狼群里工作久了,说话的方式难免变了,也成了习惯。

第二,人真的会变。

Thursday, May 24, 2012

Life and Escalator

I get this idea from my daily life with the escalator in the condo I'm staying. I took escalator everyday and slowly I found something interesting that it has some thing related with our life.

Waiting for escalator, it's like waiting for your opportunity in life.
It can be fast, it might be slow. It's regarding to where you are.
Just like you are staying at 10th floor, and the escalator is coming from 7th floor and its fast come to you.
In your life, it is matter that who you mix with, if you are mixing with people with great opportunity then it faster, if you are not, then its the other way round.
Sometimes, you can never wait for the opportunity, but you chase for it. Just like the escalator has arrive your floor but you are not ready standing there for it. So you have to rush and get in there before it close the door. You can get lucky if there's someone inside the escalator who will helps and wait for you.
In you life, there will always someone there to help to achieve your opportunity. They can be your friend or even someone you never met before. Appreciate them. And, what if no one there to help you, or that some one doesn't even think to help you. So, you have to catch the opportunity like you run few steps faster to the escalator before it close.

So you have finally get in to the escalator, but so as the others whose waited for it. 
Opportunity is not the only thing that it appear for you, the others are wanting for it too.
As you are standing inside the escalator, there are different kind of people and they wish for the same thing, its to reach their home. In life, there are many people are sharing the same goal as you do. Some will reach there faster and some need to wait. Like I mentioned above, if you are staying on the lower floor, you get it there faster and its a opportunity.
It's a priority if you are closer to your goal. 
It's not wrong for those who staying in the top level floor, they just need more time to reach their goal and it's a opportunity to. They can see other people staying in which floor and having a better view on top. 
Just like your life, you learn from others,  and seeing others on how they achieve their goal. At last, you see clearly what they had done and possess the need to reach your own.    

Appreciate your friends whose taking the escalator with you.
Whenever you taking the escalator with your friends, you will feel that you reach faster than usual.
Just like you got your friends to help on the path to success.

That's all for what I've been seeing and thinking.
Some of it you might think I'm forcing to relating.
Well, just LOL.

Monday, May 21, 2012

不能为你做些什么,也不想为你多做些什么,
是朋友的话我只能做到这一点。
如果有人说是朋友的话,我不应该这么说。
但我想做的不止是朋友

Wednesday, March 7, 2012

During the time when Dr Mahathir ruling this country,

I cannot deny that he did a lot great development to this country.

And, portrait all the good things from his party which is BN.

Yet, he successfully did that because he cover up all the bad thing by using the ISA.

Media has no freedom of speech, but to publish what they should publish in order

not to get they company down. Remember when the "Operasi Lalang",

it was a good example to those who against him. He is the controller of all.

So when time flies, its time for him to retire and then the former PM Abdullah Badawi

or "PM tidur" was up on the stage. At that time, media starting to get loose from the strict control.

So it goes all the news about the corruption yet it was all from the alternative media.

Within years, Abdullah had to step down from his seat and let the new PM goes up

which is the current PM Najib Razak or known as "Jib Gor" among the chinese.

So this current PM brings up a theme for all Malaysian called "1 Malaysia" and it brings many many

discussion among the rakyat.

You see, all these themes that suggest by the PMs,

do they really success to portrait what they should be meant?

Or, they are just something to make up some image for the government?

Well, since Najib say about "1Malaysia", more and more issues are coming up.

There are not new but still regarding to the races issue happens all time in Malaysia.

Talk about fairness, I doesn't mean to touch those sensitive issues.

But since Malaysia has establish for over 50 years, no matter what races there are.

All of them had contribute a lot to this country, and all of us should have treated fairly.

If you know what I meant here.

If you are saying you will be listening to your rakyat,

i do hope you don't just simply hanging those words besides your mouth.

I'm saying this because Malaysians now have awaken from the ruling of Mahathir.

People know what is really happening and started to voice out.

If you are saying that "listen to rakyat", please do so.

for example the Lynas would be the best. People are assembling to voice out the people's voice.

and what did the government do about it, but just giving the same statement over and over again.

What I wanted to say is, no one will change the government if they doing it right.

Bu remember that this is a democratic country and the people are the one who voted

you to be the government. Appreciate and do better to serve them best.

If you are doing it wrong, please give stage to the others.

Do not addicted to the power, it corrupts the country.

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

小三

有些时候不能由我去定断每个家庭都是幸福美满的,每段爱情是完美的。
“小三” 是叫那些介入人家的爱情里的“第三者”
这些小三就是每个幸福与完美的破坏王,也就是说
意见不合,感情淡了,等等都不是最严重的。

做小三的女人,你可要知道你的出现可以让原本一个完整的家庭完全摧毁?
男人做第一次就会有第二次
男人能为了你不要现在拥有的,但你要知道终有一天你所拥有的也会被拿走。

身为人夫的男人,也别为了这些女人抛弃爱你的人。
他们可是因为你能托付终生才嫁给你。
还没有孩子,还可以轻易说的离婚,
离婚说得容易,却像泼出去的水,收不回。
即使你能,但你能保证这段婚姻不会有裂痕吗?
再说结了婚,有了孩子
最终最惨的都是被连累的孩子们。

如果还没结婚生子的,你们都还有选择权。
我说选择权,不是代表你要找别的就找。
而是外面还有很多选择
别为了一个背叛你的男人或女人要生要死的。
他们今天能在外边有别的,他/她根本不值得你去珍惜

有时候,走到如今,你却为了别的人抛弃我。
的确不容易放下
虽然我没谈过什么恋爱,不知道分手后我也是能放下。
但我是个聆听者,我听过,看过不多的故事,
有些很难放下,有些却可以很潇洒的
还是那句“让时间冲淡一切。。。

感谢那些抛弃你的人吧
他们过去也让你学了些东西,直到离开你的时候
也让你知道你的下一个会比他/她更好
至于离婚的还有孩子的,孩子会是最爱你的人

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

一个人吃饭

这几个月里,我都在一个人吃饭,特别是晚餐。
吃饭是让人懊恼的事情,有好几次都让我徘徊在食字街口。 。 。
兜兜转转,转了又转,我都回来来去去的吃那几样。
甘香鸡饭,USA炒饭, 麦片鸡饭。最近换个口味吃Kebab。
转了又转,兜兜转转,我都会坐在同一样的地方。
坐前,坐后,坐右或左

一个人吃饭,其实我倒觉得让我没有任何顾虑。
我不必去理会其他人想吃什么,
也不必让其他人顺从我想吃什么。

一个人吃饭,我可以不必赶时间,想坐几久就几久。
所以我都把这些时间做我要做的事情,比如说。。。

我每天吃饭的时候,都会坐靠外边的位子
原因是那个位子是风水位,好让我可以有一个很好的视野观看女生。
每一天都会有不同的女生从我身边经过,不同的女生都有不同的。。。。
身材,脸型,及走路的姿态。
我都会观察这三样东西。
有些女生身材超好的,穿起衣服,走起路来都特别好看,尤其是他们走路摇摆的姿式。
而有些女生则是平平凡凡的,但只要穿得合身,有女生的姿态也很好了。
我最讨厌的女生呢就是那些刚冲好凉,又不把头发吹干就出门的女生。
根本是跟女鬼没什么两样。。。

除了看女生,我还是会看看其他东西
我会看看别人点些什么东西吃,看看别人家的小孩子,看看大荧幕上的节目,看看这个看看那个
有时候我会看到一个啊嫲,就拿这杯子到处向人乞钱。
有一次,当她走向我的时候,我只是挥了挥手表示让她走开。
过后我就开始想,为什么?难道她没家人吗?我实在想不出为什么一个老人家要出来乞钱。
于是我又会想到会不会像是电视剧那样,儿子没出息拿了啊嫲的钱然后又到处滚,啊嫲被逼出来乞钱?
过后我又想了想,心里很不舒服,便想说下一次再见到她的话。
我会问她 “啊嫲,你吃饱了吗?” 如果还没的话,我会请她吃。 。 。

除了“看”有时候我会坐在那边想东西。
就在人群中,我一个人在那边思考。
往往我想的东西都很遥远,我偶尔也会想想过去
是什么让我在这里?是什么让我有明天?
总之是想一些只有我自己才会明白而得到答案的东西。

一个人吃饭就是这样,无忧无虑的我行我素。
一个人吃饭就是这样。

Friday, May 13, 2011

I missed my bro bday
I missed my sis bday
I missed my mom bday
I missed mother's day
It's time for me to go home